Sunday, May 6, 2012

Intended and Unintended

Before I start this post I know it has been a really long time since I have updated. So to put it in a nutshell we moved to Arizona for a few months and then to Utah were Matt got a job with a tax firm. There, you're caught up. Here are a few pics from then to now.

Cousin Time

Grandma took them to the children's museum where they learned about bats!

At the Tulip festival 



Cinco de Mayo party with the Idaho family

Pinata time. Blake did a lot of the work making this pinata.


Okay, so now to get to the real post. Being a mom of small children you expect messes. I expect my kids will get dirty, in fact I want them to get dirty. You might think I am crazy, but I want them to explore and  play in the dirt or make mud pies. I want them to enjoy being kids. Sometimes, we will do activities that I intend to make a big mess, but it is worth it to me if they are having fun and maybe even learn a little something. I believe little kids learn through playing and having fun. However, with life and small children there are loads of messes that are unintended and frankly catch me of guard. Here are a few examples:

Intended mess: letting the kids cut up paper and glue them into whatever shapes and objects they want. 
Unintended mess: Blake cutting Tyler's hair

Intended mess: Setting the tent up in the living room on a cold day. Bringing every pillow, blanket and stuffed animal to cuddle with. 

Unintended mess: Lacey hidden from view behind the tent, playing in the fire place ashes.

Intended mess: Letting the kids play in shaving cream drawing pictures and letters. Getting hands clothes and table smelling like daddy. 


Unintended mess: Tyler sneaking into the hot pink food coloring and dumping half a bottle into Blake's shaving cream pan. He was hot pink from his fingertips to his elbows for several days.
Then there are the times when you are trying to clean up one mess while unbeknownst to you another one is being made. For example I was having a problem with a slow drain in my bathroom sink. With out getting into the whole story it went from slow to clogged. I tried taking matters into my own hand just to get sprayed with gross water from the pipes.
doesn't that look gross!


While I was dealing with that Lacey was getting creative with the dish washing soap.

This particular day had been a long day. FYI- The ashes, and the clogged pipes happened on this day. When I walked into the kitchen, I had no desire to clean another mess so I poured a little bit of water onto the floor and we had a slip n, slide party. I think Matt was a bit surprised to come home to a tent in the Living room, clogged pipes in the bathroom (fyi- use baking soda and vinegar to unclog), and his wife and kids sliding in the kitchen. I guess life just gets messy whether you plan those messes or not! 

2 comments:

Jessica said...

You rock Natalie! It all makes me so tired but it sure makes for good memories and stories!

Anonymous said...

That is totally awesome! You are one fantastic mom!